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Tomorrow the ad for renting our house expires. I was getting prepared to renew it and was feeling discouraged about the whole thing when the phone rang.

It's The Family. The One. The family that is going to rent our house. We talked at length and discovered that we go to the same church. They're coming over tomorrow with the cashiers check and to sign the papers.

The enormous load that I've been walking around with has lifted. This will take such a load off of us for now that I can't begin to express my gratitude that we have this taken care of.

The carpet cleaners are coming tomorrow as well and then we're off to Seattle after handing the keys over to the new people who will be living here.

I'll miss my house a lot....but I sure won't miss the house payment!


  1. Well huzzah!

    I hope to be moving into my new house in excatly 3 weeks time.

    Many a slip, however...

  2. Way to go!! I'm so glad for you. And the soreness from moving will go away eventually...grin. What a month, huh? Now you can breath while you unpack?

  3. Dave, I hope all goes well with your move! How are you feeling these days?

    G., thanks, yes it has been a month that I'd really NOT like to repeat. Ever. I hope the soreness goes away soon. I'm in a lot of pain, especially from the fall I took right before we moved.


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