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Black Friday

Not sure why they call it that.....and don't feel inclined to google it either.

I overslept and was late to work. My boss (me) was not happy and although I have no fear of being fired, I do fear she will force me to work overtime today to make up for my lack of punctuality.

I took the ENTIRE day off yesterday! My fingers did not touch a keyboard for over 24 hours. And lo, the world did not cease to exist. Miracle of miracles!

We went up to Seattle and had Thanksgiving with the family. Good food, good times.

Came home and cleaned up the kitchen from the previous night's pumpkin/cherry pie baking frenzy and spent the remainder of the evening reading! Yes! It was heaven. Hubby asked me how I could stand to read when my entire life seems consumed by words. How could I want to read when I spend all day writing? I explained that it's a different dynamic. I get to be entertained, rather than be the one entertaining. I'm taken away and relaxed.

It's all good.

Ok, back to work before the boss finds out I'm taking a quick break to write this. I'm working from the kawfeee shop again in order to avoid the children who won't leave me be at home.


  1. Shame on you treating your employer like that, taking liberties.
    *** Sigh!***

  2. I know! I'm a bad employee, but I know that I'm indispensable. She can't fire me. If she did, her business would die.

    I'm here to stay! :)


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